
A space for conversations that bring hope.
Not to fix you — but to be alongside you.
You’re not on your own.
About Me

Kia ora, I’m Nathanael.
I’m a counsellor based in Porirua, working with clients across Wellington and throughout New Zealand (online). I am a provisional member of NZAC.
My work is shaped by both professional training and lived experience — particularly in neurodiversity, identity, and navigating systems that don’t always feel like they fit.
I aim to offer a counselling space that is warm, grounded, and real. A place where you don’t need to mask, perform, or have everything figured out before you arrive.
YOU MIGHT BE FEELING…
You might be searching for counselling in Porirua or Wellington because you’re:
- Feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or burnt out
- Struggling with depression, anger, or emotional ups and downs
- Navigating life as a neurodivergent person (ADHD, autism, sensory overwhelm)
- Finding relationships or communication difficult
- Processing trauma or difficult past experiences
- Wanting support with parenting, especially with neurodivergent children
Or there may just be a sense that something isn’t quite right.
There’s space here for whatever you’re carrying.
HOW I CAN HELP
I offer counselling that allows you to slow things down and explore what’s going on beneath the surface.
Together, we can:
- Understand patterns in thoughts, emotions, and behaviour
- Develop ways to manage anxiety, stress, and overwhelm
- Process trauma safely and at your pace
- Explore identity, meaning, and direction
- Strengthen relationships and communication
Over time, this can lead to:
- Feeling more grounded and less reactive
- Greater clarity about yourself
- Increased confidence in how you move through life
- SPECIALIST COUNSELLING AREAS
Neurodivergent counselling (ADHD, autism)
Anxiety counselling
Depression support
Trauma counselling
Anger and emotional regulation
Parenting support (including neurodivergent children)
Identity and personal development
COUNSELLING DETAILS
Location: 116, Mana Esplanade Porirua (Wellington region)
Online counselling: Available across New Zealand
Session length: 50 minutes
Availability: Limited spaces available
If you’re looking for a counsellor in Porirua or Wellington, you’re welcome to reach out. - WHAT HAPPENS NEXT
- Book your counselling session online or send an enquiry
- Attend your first session (in person or online)
- We begin at your pace, focusing on what matters most to you
Please email me at contact@nathanaeldeigratia.com or book here.

Blog
My experience trialing ADHD Medication
Note- this is not medical opinion – this is just based on experience. If you need support with medication please seek that from your medical professional As you may know from my last blog post – I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. As part of this I have been trialling ADHD medication. Currently i am…
My ADHD diagnosis journey
So this is a life update on my blog about me – One of the things I try to be honest about in my life is about some of my struggles – particularly with being someone who is neurodivergent. I have known that I am different from a young age. Sadly at times the way…
I’m always here to chat about how I can best serve your needs. Please feel free to contact me!
I am not a crisis or urgent response service and may not be able to respond to any inquiries immediately. If you are in crisis please call 111. If you need to talk to someone urgently, call or text 1737 for free, confidential support 24/7.

Get in Touch
Nathanael Dei Gratia Counseling contact@nathanaeldeigratia.com
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